About the class

Have you ever noticed how those days when you are grumpy and you feel like you don't want to talk to anyone, no one talks to you?! And then there are the days when you feel good - maybe you got a promotion at work or you are wearing a new outfit that makes you feel good.....and people stop and chat with you, ask you for directions and interact with you while you're in line for coffee.

In this workshop we will teach you concrete skills that you can use to be open and available for connection whenever you want to be! We will look at how to be that magnetic person that everyone seems to want to talk to, how to use body language to communicate more effectively, how to develop rapport with people you've just met - so opportunities come your way....whether it's dating that new special someone or getting put on that great project at work! We'll also talk about how to deepen that rapport, once you have it.

About Lani

.Lani serves as an instructor for Social Fluency. Her curiosity in  social  dynamics and relationships has led her to spend many  months living  in India, Nepal, Southeast Asia, and South  America where she  researched love, marriage customs,  communication styles, and what  it means to be “in relationship”  from the perspective of many different  cultures. In addition to  her teaching at Social Fluency, she helps  individuals create the  thriving love lives that they want with her private  relationship  and dating coaching practice in San Francisco and  Berkeley. Lani attended the Coaches Training Institute where  she  received her certification in Co-Active coaching. She has  also studied  Somatic Ecopsychology, and RC-S (parts work therapy) which she  integrates into her work. She received her  bachelor’s in creative  advertising from The University of  Colorado at Boulder where she  studied the psychology behind  communicating a message to the  masses. When she’s not  seeing clients or teaching, she can be found  tinkering around  with art supplies, trying to learn contact improv, and  her latest  venture…learning how to paraglide.